I've done a few STM32 designs on different families.
For ease most of the time I chose an oscillator. However, since that is not your question, in cases where I've used crystals, I took the design guide as reference / rule of thumb. So, for a 25Mhz crystal, off the top of my head, I'd have gone with 18pf I believe, with 33R or 50R series resistor. Good thing about resistors, you might not even really need them, so you can add a bridge if that is the case.
One thing, both caps I used where always the same value, do I understand correctly that you're using 5 and 8 pf?
Cheers,
Alberto