Ever heard of JB weld? it might be a little too much for what you need, but will inarguably handle the temperature in your milk frother! The stuff basically is like an epoxy whitch when done becomes an analogue to iron! Ir does not corrode, does not interract with water (or milk) in any way, and when it has set, it has set! If not, some standard cpu cooling paste might do it, as long as it is not in contact with any milk as it may dissolve into your delicios coffe cream!