Err, I don’t know part numbers, but you can get silicone socks. These would fall under thermal management / heat sink pads in the catalogs.
You’d probably need to fasten it somehow. I would suggest that your TO-247 needs to be mechanically fastened down anyway so it doesn’t shake about. Solder joints will fatigue and crack if you have a mass (TO-247 body) and spring (legs) attached. I think you can find compression clips, which just squeeze down on the outside of the sock, for this.
You know, this sounds aggravating. Are you sure you can’t find a surface mount solution?