Thanks so much for the very detailed information and advice!
I just yesterday 12/29 received my GPIB connectors (both male straight and female right angle), and have some ATMEGA644 parts from a project that didn't proceed.
I have a real live HP 9122C floppy drive for which one of the drives appears to work, but it's fragile and ancient, and I'd just like to use it as a reference for undertaking the SS/80 protocol server.
The various protocol documents (linked previously, and downloaded here) look pretty complete but can't guarantee error-free.
Presumably the AR488 code could be used itself to print (to serial port) message exchanges as a debug tool.