The way I proceed with Mouser to avoid shipping fee, is to fill a project list whenever I think I need some parts.
Then, when I urgently need a specific part for a project, I just grab whatever I have in my backlist to
fill the gap up to 65 $.
You just have to be patient, but I found that for many parts (electrolytic caps in particular), Mouser offers better deals
than ebay, and with reliable parts.
What I say about Mouser can of course be translated to any other big company.