Thanks to all for thoughts and ideas. Some feedback/answers:
@David Hess: thanks, I like the idea of a comparator or FET(s) followed by a Schmitt buffer (assuming I can get a comparator that's fast enough and low cost)
@Terry Bites: agree, fortunately I can keep everything close/short to the DUT, while trying to reduce strays as much as possible. I think would have to clamp inputs on SN75LVDS31 (compromising the high impedance req.?)
@SpacedCowboy: Salae style inputs would work fine for me except for the high input impedance req outside of normal logic levels
@free_electron: main test parameter of interest is pulse timing (high and low times), input signals can be assumed to be 3.3V CMOS or 5V TTL (so Vil = 0.8V and Vih = 2.0V), so no need for DAC-adjustable levels