so I found this graph that shows the response of the pickup I tested on the blue line and a more quality pickup on the red line.
also, I have used one coil from the neck pickup and one from the bridge after I heard rumors about that increasing mid response, and probably the reason I am having these problems is that I have like 50 switches that connect the pickup in different ways, I but every other combination sounds either super dark or really "twangy" and like Idk dumb sounding.
but if they would be out of phase, which would be a good explanation for this, I would have near 0 output, I tried that already, it's probably now in parallel the pickup.
also, it's the bridge pickup so that might lower some low response.
I will disconnect the pickups from the circuit, test in what way it was connected, and test the response while connecting it like usual, either in parallel or series, in phase.
