You're "patronizing him to stay stupid". You think you'll be able to talk him out of it? Because ... why? Because you think you are more capable of grasping the sheer horrible nature of this experiment than he is? Why?
Maybe come up with an equivalent experiment that won't kill him if he makes that one mistake, that even a middle-schooler would be able to avoid! Like giving a child, who found a real gun, a BB-gun instead. He'll learn what it takes to shoot a gun and he'll be happy.
This kind of entitlement that enables you to say: "I know what's best for you" is the most DISGUSTING thing one can display - if you don't give sensible advise together with it, or maybe an alternative way to pursue in this hobby - or if don't even have proper knowledge about the topic. In fact, I don't think entitlement will ever be not-disgusting.
Damn it, why is everybody OK to talk about high voltage equipment, but is reluctant to do so about x-ray machinery, huh? I know: Because you understand high-voltage! You know how to handle it - you are even experienced maybe. But you are also afraid of what you don't understand:
You assume they don't know how to handle those machinery, just because you yourself don't know or because of the underlying problem in this analogue: They've hammered the safety measures you need to follow to stay alive while working with high-voltage into you, and you don't think about those measures very much because they have seeped into your nature. So you don't mention them all the time while talking about it.
-> Why do you assume they didn't go through a training like that themselves, but for nuclear radiation instead?
You didn't even had the thought that he might have the same expertise as the usual Rad-Con, but knows nothing about electronics, did you? Maybe that's the reason he is here to ask about it: Because he just doesn't know how to do that one part of it, doesn't mean he knows nothing about it at all! He never asked what x-rays are, did he?
Don't get me wrong! It is really great that you are concerned about his well being. But after the third page of patronizing, you should just stop being obnoxious.
This post is for everyone to reflect upon. Not just for ebastler.
And I am frustrated and disappointed again, so it sounds a little heated.
EDIT: If this is not the case then tell me. I really want to understand why you would do this constantly, guys. It's the only explanation I have.