Yes, once a month is fine. Or even once a year! Just remember that the circuit you use must be able to do its job. Some balancing circuits are so weak (algorithm which can utilize only small amount of time, maybe just some minutes on each full charge cycle, combined with low balancing current) that they need to run more often than others. The longer you wait, the more difference has accumulated to be taken care of.
It is not unheard of to not balance at all. Many reputable manufacturers have done exactly that, including many 2s packs on older consumer gear, or 4s-6s packs on Bosch power tools from a decade ago. These do not even have cell-by-cell monitoring, just connected in series (with one low-voltage cutoff for the whole pack) in a way most internet sources say leads to explosions and fires. Yet, no one had any problems with these Bosch power tools. By choosing cells of high quality control, and with physically small pack so that cells are at the same temperature, amount of accumulated imbalance during the whole lifetime is just small enough. So if you balanced once a year, you'd be doing better than that already.
I'm not suggesting to go without balancing or monitoring, though, just to give idea about how little of balancing is actually needed. When designing the cell voltage monitoring and balancing system, your #1 goal should be making 110% sure your own circuit won't fail or cause imbalance, because in such case the pack would have been better off without any added circuitry! Only after the reliability and low leakage current are verified should you start adding fancy features - redistributive balancing being one of the last to make sense.
And remember the difference of balancing and monitoring. You can choose just to monitor the cell voltages and control charge / discharge such that the highest / lowest cell voltage does the decision. This is what you "must" implement anyway, and which gives you the safety. Balancing is an added functionality on top which just maintains the usable pack capacity to maximum possible (this is, capacity of the lowest-capacity cell is the capacity of pack. Without balancing, it can be worse than that.). The thing is, most of the complexity goes into monitoring - level shifting etc., so once you have that, you usually implement balancing as well.