A grass trimmer needs the speed because the cutting action is based on the speed. You can test the same idea with a scythe, if you move it too slowly, the grass won't get cut but instead bends or smashes, this requires more energy than cutting it in the first place. So I think a cutter is a special case where reducing speed would increase the required torque (opposite to centrifugal pumps or fans), and also result in very poor cutting. Therefore it makes no sense to slow a grass trimmer down.
So yeah, in essence, it is always important to understand what the mechanical load is. Motor theory alone does not suffice.
How can a grass trimmer be "too powerful"? I don't understand. Having it rotate at almost full no-load RPM would not pull much current either, and seem quite optimal for the purpose.