I would probably check if any pin on particular connector has 3.3V on it. If it has, make a wire with two 1 pin DuPont connectors and a 100 ohm resistor in series. Then try connecting it between 3.3V pin and every other pin except GND and try booting with each connection variant. If it boots, you have found the right pin and can solder the resistor permanently. By this method, chance of causing any further damage is small and chance of fixing the thing quite high.
In any case, without having another working board and oscilloscope to find the CLK signal, you wouldn't know for sure without a hit and miss testing.