First off, have you tried measuring the old resistor with your meter? If you get a reasonable reading, that may not have been the failure point.
At 120V, I'd pick 33Kohm for an NE-2H lamp, or 120Kohm for NE-2. They look the same, of course.
You don't know what you have, so I'd try 120K first. If it works, do NOT try 33K.
Pick a higher value if you think it's too bright...you presumably remember what it looked like before.
Your other option is to replace it with an LED indicator circuit. You'll lose the neon flicker, but otherwise quite adequate.