Btw, what‘s the problem with the connector?
I didn’t notice signs of wear and tear.
Maybe that is a good board and the others have broken pins, this did happen with boards at work, though I think 64 pins was the most anything had.
As the connectors we had were damaged, I would usually cut the pins & remove on by one, then add some fresh solder and desolder with a Pace desoldering iron.
Removing connectors complete was possible with the Pace, then checking each pin was loose before removing, repeat adding fresh solder if they weren't loose. You do have to be careful, other people would get impatient & cause damage, desoldering tip needs to be in good condition too.
Lining up the connector pins was fun too for those round pin connectors, especially if there wasn't the other half available to hold them.
David