You should look carefully at any notes accompanying the schematic. Does the schematic show the circuit with the relays energized or un-energized? Depending on that, the pin assignments given above might be reversed (6-8 and 9-11).
Also, in some rare cases, the relay coil (1-16) might be polarized, that is to say, the +12V may need to go specifically to one side of the coil.
If you are working on an existing piece, try to get the model number of the relay and look for a specification sheet.