@Paul B: I tried a number of ways to improve the degraded performance of the original photo coupler devices myself, to no avail. They suffer from pure age related deterioration, is my guess. All things must pass...
Here for better or for worse, is a pic of my the diagram of my CD4514 + UNL2003 replacement concoction, which works quite well. It is effectively a take-off of the HP upgrade, but with fewer components.
"Please excuse the crudity of the model. I didn't have time to build it to scale or paint it."

I can redraw this into a more conventional schematic drawing if needed, this is just my crude working sketch from my bread-board development work.
But...it works. Refer to the previously posted pics for where to tie in the ABCD counter bits, -150V, GND, and X-fer In to the original circuit. Let me know if you have questions. Happy to help.
- Scott
[Edit: Also, you will need to replace the common anode resistor for the
nixie display with a 12KΩ resistor, and disconnect the R6, R7, R8, and R9 resistors to the neon bulbs. My pic above shows CR1-8 disconnected, but you can leave them in; they do no harm to stay.]