Sometimes living in Brazil sucks. I cannot find these connectors/caps locally, from eBay or Amazon it would cost me R$10+R$50 - and from China they never make trough the customs.
You were not even trying. Those connectors/feedthrough capacitors can be easily found
for around 6 US bucks a pop delivered, depending on where you live in Brazil. You can even pay it in four installments, if you are really budget constrained.
Anyway, at the end of last year I had a magnetronic failure of the same kind. The connector turned into a 30 ohm resistor. The magnetron stopped working, but didn't blow any fuse. I ordered a replacement and started the surgery.
I used a 3.5mm drill bit to remove the rivets that held the connector in place.
This produced filings that were immediately attracted by the magnets of the magnetron and needed to be removed.
I also noticed some discoloration on the base of the filament support and on the internal plate of the casing, suggesting the occurrence of arching.
This is the final result.
To replace the rivets I used these screws for hard-disk drives. I've got lots of them.
I applied solder between the nuts and the screws to prevent them from becoming loose with vibration.
The magnetron is working OK ever since.