There are companies, in the UK at least, whose entire business is repairing automotive ECUs (of all kinds, abs etc.), I would be surprised if there wasn't at least one in Italy. Garages (except franchised dealers, obviously!) use these all the time as an alternative to the customer paying potentially thousands for a brand new one from the car manufacturer. They have the large amounts of equipment necessary to simulate an engine, all of it's sensors, actuators, injectors etc. together with the appropriate rework facilities.
I'm sorry to say that from reading the thread, I don't think you have the equipment level or experience to repair one of these. I'm just being realistic. These repair companies are unlikely to accept an ECU that has been tampered with, you could probably simply say that you opened it to check for water ingress. This path will at least result in you keeping your own ECU with any relevant codings, safely re-sealed, and the repair will include a warranty, not something you will get from a scrap yard or aliexpress.
If you can't find any obviously cracked solder joints or components by visual inspection alone under a magnifier, I would send the ECU to one of these companies. If they find the board is covered in meter probe marks, they probably won't touch it.