I did get the thermocouple correct but still got an error so I think the heating element is either backwards or the solder didn't properly bind as it wasn't sticking properly to the one wire so I may need to use physical connections instead of the solder-ring-heat-shrink things...
My multimeter didn't detect the thermocouple properly but my thermometer thing did..
'edit: Since I have to take it apart again anyway, and I'll probably test before putting it together - I'll take some photos of everything... I also have the colors of the wires defined...
Inside Handle
Red = Thermocouple - Note: When you snip the wires, I recommend cutting one through the center of the physical binding and the other through the wire or differently enough that you can tell which is which. Then, check the thermocouple polarity and mark the wire - I used a black sharpie for the negative. I'll see about getting the actual pin-out so there is less work... I am using the 5 pin KSGER unit.
Red = Thermocouple
Green = Ground
Black-Switch / Black = heater - probably negative
Blue = Power
Heater Element Colors
White = Thermocouple
White = Thermocouple
Black = Ground
Blue = Heater
Blue = Heater
Not sure which side is ground but I could probably just apply a voltage on the old heater with the unit with the old one apart so I know which side is which... although the new heater has a ceramic goop or something covering up the connectors on the outside unlike the smaller old heater which has them exposed with a sheathing over it.
Edit: One other side-note... The larger heater comes with a longer tube which doesn't fit into the glass tube... I have 2 options for this... Either I cut the tube ( and to do this I'd probably take a metal wire slightly smaller than the tube itself and put it inside then use my flush snips and go around the tube until it separates - so it doesn't get crushed... I could file it shorter... Or I could cut a small channel in the silicone at the end of the glass for it to fit in, since it is longer it will fit inside and may have a good seal that way... also if I make the channel a simple slit, it could also seal itself that way... I'll probably file or cut or see if I can get a miniature pipe cutter for it.