As already mentioned before, using ECC
unbuffered DIMM is straight-forward, extra byte for ECC will be simply ignored if not supported by platform.
You can visually identify ECC UDIMM by it's look, it will just have extra DRAM chip for ECC byte, making up for 72 bit databus (64+8), while usual DIMM have 8 or 16 chips (8*8 = 64 bit databus).
Registered or buffered DIMM is whole another story, as it's addressing/command topology is different.
You can see in example diagram from internets here:

And in your case, you have ECC RDIMM, which cannot work in usual platform. There are some exceptions, for example most PC motherboards on Intel X79 and Intel X99 platform (LGA2011 socket), which can support RDIMMs if Xeon CPU is installed, but that's because this platform is natively goes from server design.