38SWG wire, with the end tinned (hot soldering iron tip and lots of solder applied to burn the laquer layer off), and use a fine tip to heat the board, then dip the tinned wire into the hole. This should make a good contact, and then take the wire ends, and use a small piece of scrap board, preferably a break out with the connector on it, trimmed to the right size, and solder the other ends to it, then clean the lot, and use a blob of epoxy to hold the lot down. Done that before to attach wires to a clock PCB, where i wanted to get the cheap slide switches outside, and to a better switch, and apply power as well. Still working 30 years later on.