Maybe using slightly radioactive gasoline would solve some of the ignition problems when spark is weak.
With increased intake pressures, I just tighten the gap. My test jig uses nitrogen which obviously is not going to behave the same. So it's a bit of tongue and cheek.
I had a couple of NGK CR9EK plugs on the shelf. One used, one new. Measuring the internal resistive element, I got 7.50k for the used and 5.72k for the new plug. I doubt this has anything to do with the plugs being used or not but rather just sloppy tolerances. Looking at the conductance of the insulator, I would need to set up the electrometer. Using my handheld meter, there's a measurable difference. I would want to clean the outside of the insulators first (same when using HV resistors). I think I may have one of these that I fouled when a coil pack started to fail. That should easily show a difference as well.
So you are actually studying these spark plugs for a reason or another or are you just using them for sacrificial parts for the HV-equipment itself? Ok, I have no idea what is the direction of the slope with these tensions and pressures and cap-distances, from your post I could read between the lines that those are downslope, ie. things are behaving in a way that makes sense, smaller cap smaller breakdown tension/voltage.
I'm wondering the first picture of yours, it looks like "low-voltage" (<1000V) front panel, is it function generator maybe?

Been thinking for years to build or buy HV-tester, but frankly I do not like the idea to get zapped, while doing something quickly at late at night when someone should be already at sleep.

As it is not only the wires and DUT, but the damn tables and chairs and everything starts to charge up (been there, done that).