At work we have quite a stock of capacitors for repair purposes, some well over 20 years old. I have not had any reliability issues with using such old stock.
Do take note that these are generally all name-brand good quality capacitors (Cornell Dubilier, Nichicon, Rubycon, etc).
When stored in a climate controlled environment, away from excessive heat, and the fact that they are not being subjected to any electrical or mechanical stresses, there really should be no issues at all for quite some time (decades), despite the manufacturer's suggested shelf life which obviously errs on the side of caution.
I also have never manually reformed capacitors, just take em out of the parts bins, solder them into circuit, and apply power. Never had any issues.