_And the cathode-GND path?_
Please download the attached picture and open it 100% size.
Pay attention to the light blue circle, red line, dark blue line, purple rectangle.
1. The light blue circle marks the "via" which is connected to negative pin of the black capacitor. I think there can be no path from cathode to this "via" because of the diode next to the cathode.
2. The red line is from pin 6 of microcontroller to cathode.
3. The purple rectangle marks the resistor and the capacitor connecting cathode and gate.
4. The blue line marks the path from cathode to the heating element on the other board and finally to ACN (AC Neutral).
I hope these informations help you.
Will it help to mark also the path which goes through the heating element of board No. 2?