I'd be extremely wary of buying any Anet product, improved or not - they've a long and established history of doing the worst possible job, and I'd be surprised if they've learnt their lesson about thermal runaway yet.
I can't even find any photos of an A8 Plus, let alone a review, which makes me even more wary. Perhaps nobody wants to go there.
By the way, I don't 'spew crap' about the A8 - there's one eight inches to the right of the monitor I'm using to type this. I know them all too well. A lot of the issues seen with them are due to poor assembly, but they still have fundamental flaws, not least the misconfigured firmware.
The Ender 3 has its flaws, but they're pretty well known and relatively minor, so I'd say it's a decent starting point. Biggest downside is the bowden extruder, which makes avoiding stringing much, much harder.
As for software, nothing in the consumer range comes with anything special - there are numerous options available for modelling and slicing (two very distinct operations) both free and paid for. Personally I use Slic3r (well, today the PrusaSlicer fork of it) for slicing and, well, I've yet to settle on CAD tooling - the 'free' commercial options (Fusion 360, Onshape, etc) do not suit me and the actually free tools (FreeCAD, OpenSCAD, some others) are, uh, a little special.