Most no-name BNC ones are best avoided, since they are likely intended for old LAN setups, and are not very wideband.
The 50 ohm terminators/loads with a datasheet will be best, because you can examine that to see if it meets your needs (they will have a chart or table of return loss values). Examples are Minicircuits (generally affordable) or Huber+Suhner (might be a bit more expensive). Other examples off the top of my head that may offer them are MACOM, Radiall, Rosenberger, I've not purchased 50 ohm terminators/loads from them though. I'm sure there are even more exotic suppliers.
I've bought 50-ohm loads from Minicircuits if it's cost-sensitive (but it is still backed up by a datasheet), otherwise Huber+Suhner. Both are available from normal electronics distributors usually (or can buy direct from Minicircuits).