Another vote for probe master here. I have both their fine, spring loaded probes and their regular probes.
Even the regular probes (which are gold plated stainless steel) are extremely sharp, easily able to draw blood, and fine enough for most components. Maybe not 0201, but they work fine for 0402. Without a receiving tube for the pogo pin insert, these probes cannot really fail. (I did have the fine spring loaded ones fail, which they replaced under warranty.)