Tough question. The oil you use to soften the leather will kill adhesion with almost any adhesive. But the very porous back surface of most leathers would allow a mechanical bond with adhesives such as hot glues, epoxies and such. You could also go the route of softening the leather, forming it to your needs and then cleaning the oil off/out of the glued surface with appropriate detergents and solvents. This would simulate the condition of most new leathers. Then the spray on adhesives designed for upholstery should work fine. Find them at auto parts shops.