I have used a lot of these SIL IDC connectors for wire to board:
http://uk.rs-online.com/web/p/idc-connectors/1899463/ and I really like them for being quick, simple and versatile.
They make them for a few conductor sizes and whilst you can use them with the 0.1" pitch ribbon I tend to use them a lot with 7/0.2 PVC singles, they will just about fit 16/0.2 PVC insulated if you need higher current. Most of my designs tend to use a mixture of these and IDC 0.05" ribbons, and I particularly like the IDC D-connectors over the solder buckets.* If you really want the full 5A/pin on a D-connector there are some where you crimp the pins to he wires and then insert them into the housing, a lot like the 38999 military connectors, I think Amphenol make them.
*But everyone always gets confused over the pin numbering. You crimp a 9 pin D connector on one end of a ribbon and a 2x5 0.1" on the other end and the pin mapping becomes something like: (D connector to header) 1-1, 2-3, 3-5, 4-7, 5-9, 6-2, 7-4, 8-6, 9-8. Takes a while to get used to and you need to be absolutely clear whether you mean the header or the D connector.