Hi,
20 m is generally my favorite band. Whenever I switch on, there are at least a couple of ongoing QSOs, in nearly all modes (SSB, CW, RTTY, digital). Of course, propagation may change over the day, but who cares... Ham radio is fun.
If you feel alone, start calling CQ. As long as you're not calling from Russia, someone will come back within an acceptable time. Usually within a couple of minutes.
So, honestly, I can't get your problem at all. From my viewpoint, you're going to act something like Don Quixote de la Mancha... May work, but... The hard way.
All the best and 73!