So the conclusion seems to be MCX plugs commonly available that do mate with pretty much any modern made "consumer grade" MCX I have (mostly DVB sticks, LTE modems etc) are a "Chinesium" standard that doesn't actually mate with any MCX made by a reputable company like Hubner-Suhner, etc? Hilarious! Every device I've ever owned with a MCX jack up to this point was made in China so I never realised :-)
Don’t confuse simple noncompliance with a “standard”. (Though the existence of a Chinese standard that’s undocumented in the West is of course possible.)
Also it’s Huber+Suhner, not Hu
bner-Suhner.

I love their products, but damn they’re expensive.

There are other coax connector brands that are just as good, but I’ve encountered none that are superior. (Though I will complain that their MMCX connectors require an annoying assembly process that requires stripping the jacket, then partial assembly before stripping the dielectric…) I also adore their RADOX 125 polyolefin-insulated wire.
The thing with these drawings I just noticed is that they show the plug outer diameter dimension on the petals and not on the cylindrical part of the diameter. The plugs I have are all 3.7mm min on the cylindrical part and even bigger on the petals (I haven't measured there, I will later).
The Randall page shown on the post above shows something like a thinning of the cylindrical section and this is marked as diameter H at 3.6mm max. The plugs I have do not have this thinned out section and are all 3.7 to 3.75 there. The slots are absolutely tiny. I haven't measured but by the eye they look like 0.05mm at most. Sadly no drawing shows what the width of slots should be or how many there are.
If we allow the petals to flex in and say 3.6mm cylindrical section has to compress to 3.48mm that means in the original plug the slots have to be 0.4mm collectively (roughly). So 4 slots of 0.1mm would make sense probably.
Now if we take a Chinesium plug with cylindrical diameter of 3.7mm (sometimes even more) that would gave to have slots that are collectively 0.7mm wide to compress to 3.48mm. It has 3 slots, so 0.23mm each? They are not even close to being that wide.
I'll be ordering more MCX plugs to see if any made in China are different, but I'm not holding my breath. I'm not spending $20 on an MCX plug (my assumption) by hubner-suhner etc, but I'm happy to modify my Chinesium brand plugs if I can't get in-spec ones.
Measuring such a tiny internal diameter precisely is very difficult, but I'd love to measure the Chinese MCX jacks to see what they are. I have some measuring rods. I should definitely have 3.5mm. If it fits loosely into a Chinese made MCX jack we have our answer.
Thank you for your help in getting to the bottom of this.
Now I can imagine a guy who spent "good money" on quality MCX plugs to make an antenna extension for his LTE modem and his plugs fall out because the Jack's are too big... Or they are held by the central pin and disconnect with any slight vibration. Oh, my.
Assuming that your measurements are correct (which there’s no reason to doubt), then those Chinese plugs are woefully out of spec. It just dawned on me: your plug shown in the very first picture appears to be nickel-plated. Is it possible that they machined the plug to final dimensions (and more specifically, to the maximum dimensions, maybe even a bit beyond)
before plating and then plated on such a thick plating that it is now decidedly out of spec?

(This actually makes me wonder: do RF connector manufacturers have to machine to different dimensions depending on the plating they intend to use? I assume gold and silver are thinner platings than nickel.)
It’s possible that the actual standards documents for MCX make some statement about mating and retention forces, and leave it up to the manufacturer to decide how to slit the barrel to achieve this. Unlike all the RF connectors that are specified in U.S. military standards, and thus freely available, I don’t think the full MCX standard is available for free.)
I don’t think Radiall dimension “H” means the thickness behind the retention rib: the dimension lines don’t extend that far back. So I think they’re just referring to the taper that must exist on the mating end, to guide it into the jack.
Remember that if you have a 3.5mm gauge, it should actually not fit in a standards-compliant jack.
There are plenty of other brands to try before spending $
$$ on Huber+Suhner, Radiall, Hirose, etc. Amphenol, Molex, Samtec, Telegärtner, TE, Cinch, … (The only brand available on Digikey that I would avoid is Adam Tech.)
What I think is safe to assume is that Ericsson used a top-quality $
$$ connector. So it will be made to spec.