OK, so further calculations. The main issue is that my SMA connector is not 50Ohm, so let's fix that, and a few other things.
I'm just going to brain dump here, hopefully someone follows
1) The idea is that the board is changed, so the SMA solder pin is calculated as a 50Ohm microstrip. The SMA pad is 0.9mm * 4.1mm
https://resources.altium.com/p/sma-edge-connector-transitions-rf-pcb2) Changing the resistors to 0402 because IDK why I was using 0603 in the first place. The pad size is 0.6mm*0.6mm of these parts.
3) The transmission line therefore should be 0.6mm wide. I usually do this with 2x0.2mm prepreg between L1 and L2, with 0.2mm spacing CPW, but we don't have this stackup, so recalculate.
4) Altium hates when things are not 45 or 90 degrees placed, so I'm going to do that.
5) Remove soldermask, probably doesn't matter
6) Try delta configuration as well
7) Move resistors closer.
8 ) Smaller PCB
9)
Use Vishay FC series 50 Ohm resistors for the delta configuration based on G0HZU's recommendation Nah, jokes aside, I have selected before 50 Ohm resistors that are about 0.1nH inductive.
JLC doesn't offer 2L boards with impedance control, so I excluded that.
On 4L stackup that they call JLC04161H-7628(Standard) there isn't a solution for CPW which is 0.6mm wide. Microstrip between L1-L2 is 0.35mm, CPW between L1-L3 with 0.2mm spacing is 0.86mm. The core is too thick. So we need more layers. That's fine, with the specials they have continuously, this is still 4 EUR shipped.
After playing with the impedance calculator, this is what I came up with. L2 needs to be empty below the CPW. 6 layer is wasteful I know, but I consider this constraint driven design.