I agree with some of your points, like display, update rate, batteries and form factor. I'm not sure if I agree that one dual display removes the need for multiple meters, although I guess you would have the small Fluke 112 as backup. I disagree about the costs, at least when buying new. The lowest Fluke/Agilent DMMs that I would personally consider are $800, that's more than I'd spend on two handhelds. Not much point in buying two 87V meters in my opinion, I would choose the second meter to have other strengths, for example a cheaper Agilent meter with more features but less battery life/robustness. Bench meters (you would need two) are cheaper than handhelds when you buy used, however. It's not too hard to find a used bench meter on eBay for < $100. The older 3.5-4.5 digit ones for even less. A used Fluke 87 or similar usually costs more.
Don't expect Dave to agree with you, however, he clearly prefers handhelds. How much screen time has his HP 3478A gotten compared to the Gossen, Fluke and Agilent handhelds? Even when measuring the resistors, where the extra resolution and automation features of the 3478A would have been useful, he still couldn't be bothered to hook up GPIB but used an Agilent handheld with its flawless datalogging feature.