I think everyone here is owed an update as it has been a long while now.
Unfortunately, I've come to the conclusion that realistically, I can't gather enough time to finish this project, with my career and other work taking up most of my free time. I am currently in a precarious living situation, looking to buy a home soon but in a market that has gone crazy due to COVID/work-from-home. So, I find myself working long hours and generally not having enough time or energy left to look at this, in order to be able to provide the down payment on a home. I am kicking myself for not doing this years ago, but that is FOMO and we don't do that here.
Longer term, I do want to revisit it and give another look to the platform and the software, but it probably won't be for another year or so when things have settled down on my personal side. I have a lot of ideas for how to improve the platform.
I am more than happy for the community (if interested) to continue this project; as noted previously, everything is now open source, and I can supply the hardware schematics and designs in CircuitMaker (you can find them by looking for 'Scopy_MVP_Platform', they should be public). But realistically this project requires several more man-years of effort, which I just cannot give it. In any case, my day job now mostly involves dealing with Zynq and UltraScale and it's really hard to find the time or energy to continue starting at Vivado after doing 10 hours of it every day. At my old job I was only doing basic microcontroller and analog circuit design so I felt I had a lot more 'bandwidth' available to do project work after a work day.
Anyway, I appreciate all of the advice and comments on here and, maybe someday, there will be a good open-source scope available. But, sadly, I don't think I will be the one to deliver it - not just yet, at least.