My US$0.02:
I have a 87V and had a 179 - both are really excellent meters.
Nowadays it is not really difficult to surpass the 87V in features. Since you don't seem to really need the safety, the Fluke is overpriced for this parameter alone. However, its build quality and ease of use are great highlights - not to mention the track record of many decades of completely rotten meters in the used market that are still spot on w.r.t. measurements. A similar story goes for the 179, although it loses a few points to the 87V as it does not have a few other features such as relative and mA and it has 1kHz bandwidth (the 87V is 20kHz, which is good enough for measurements across the audio spectrum). The 87V defaults to AC current measurements. Not a huge deal in my opinion, but others will say the entire meter becomes useless simply due to this. YMMV.
I have also a Brymen, although a different one (BM857). It is an excellent meter, fully featured (a bit less featured than your candidate BM786) but it has more bandwidth (20kHz) and misses on the autohold (I love this on the Flukes and Keysights, although the BM786 has it as well). I can tell that Brymen has a superb customer service (I haven't had the need to use Fluke's) but the build quality, at least for the BM857, is two notches under the Flukes.
A third brand you might consider is Keysight: their U1272A/1273A are my favourite meters (I have a U1273A, as well as a U1282A) and fully featured - nothing really is missing: autohold, frequency, DC+AC, Low Z, one of the best datalogging features, etc. Build quality is a notch under the Fluke, although better than the Brymen that I have.
From the cheaper alternatives, both the AN870 (I have its Richmeters counterpart RM219) and the UT61E (non plus) are excellent. Both are fully featured but the Aneng loses the bargraph and has a worse display. The UT61E is more responsive, has a good bargraph and excellent capacitance meter but does not have backlight and NCV (if that matters to you).
Overall, the choices are plentiful. Good luck in your quest!