I really don't know what "appreciable" changes are or what a "typical" wrench would be.
That seems to be the heart of the problem. What is "appreciable" or "significant"?
When I write assembly instructions for EMS personnel, job #1 is to get them to use a torque wrench at all. Training the assemblers in a 40,000-square foot ISO-certified facility in the Bay Area, it was surreal to discover that none of them had ever seen an SMA torque wrench before. Although there was no shortage of RF hardware being shipped out of that factory, my product was either the only one that specified connector torques, or the only one whose instructions explicitly called for a torque wrench to be used.
Beyond that, I'm happy if the torque applied is within, say, -25% to +50% of the rated amount. Decent-quality SMA connectors are going to work just fine in the 6-12 in-lb range. Just as the equipment breakage described in the university lab manual .PDF was not caused by students holding a torque wrench incorrectly, the quality issues I saw weren't caused by tolerance violations. They were caused by connectors being left untorqued entirely.
Ultimately the best solution was a redesign that eliminated 80% of the connectors and left the others more easily accessible. Lots of lessons were learned on that project, some by the assemblers but mostly by me.
The NRAO guidelines posted above are pretty interesting in that regard. They are telling people to torque each connector 3 times, and I'm kicking myself for not thinking of that. Instead of my assemblers being unsure if they have torqued a given connector at all, the NRAO assemblers are going to fret about whether they've applied the wrench 3 times or only twice.
No matter, finger placement has been covered but rather then posting gibberish, feel free to prove me otherwise. Plot the six or so data points I previously asked for.
Nobody is going to do all this work for you, Joe, and if they do, it probably won't prove what you're hoping it will. (Which is what, exactly?) A half-assed video is about all you can expect for free.
