You have done your research so there is not much more we can tell you really.
Some things to consider about some of the recommendations:
Fluke17b - good meter, backed up by Flukes reputation BUT this model is for the Chinese market and there is no warrenty outside China or India. That said, if it works out of the box, it should be good.
It is well above your price range but have you looked at the Fluke179?
Amprobe is in the same corporate group as Fluke but they have seperate design teams. The good news is that the general consesus is that Amprobe have the same safety and build reputation as Fluke.
Bryman meters, I was under the impression that Bryman do not have a presense in the US, they rely on distributors.
I would not rule out Uni-T, I have one and it is fine, I have even bought the UT61E but have not received it yet. Yes, having read about the design issues, I would definitly check if it is safe for mains. I bought a Tenma rebranded model (rebranded for Farnell), which means it would have to pass specifications set by Farnell. I have measured mains with it but I am definitly more careful with it now even though it looks like it has all the design safety points that Dave recommends.
(The ut61e is a meter to consider if you are looking for a 4.5 digit multimter, though some question it's long term stability. I have bought one but it will take at least 12 months to even begin to determine its stabiliy)
Have you looked at Keysight meters?(Keysight is the newname for Agilant which used to be HP)
If you were looking at the Fluke85, look at the u1240 series (I find them quite uggly but that is not to say that they are not very capable meters) I would not get the u1230 series, they are not really electronics meters. I have the u1232a, has very slow annoying auto ranging and none of them have mA range.
Some have mentioned that it is a good idea to have 2 meters, yes it is but not a must. One thing you could do is get the cheap HarbourFrieght 'freebie' meter as your 2nd meter but avoid using it for mains/high voltages.
Have you checked out what you can get from your local shops?
Just some more thoughts (hopefully not confused you more)
