“Look like silicone”? Silicone doesn’t have one look, as there are countless types of silicone rubbers. In practice, silicone insulation tends to look satiny or matte, so polish would make it look less like silicone. I suspect that a lot of what you think is silicone insulation is actually PVC.
Regardless, the IPA cleaning you did, plus perhaps a gripping agent like I mention above, should help a lot!