I installed the driver and put my camera into the suggested mode from the hidden menu, but when I try to connect to 192.168.0.2 from filezilla it fails to connect. Any ideas?
I noticed that sometimes the network setup didn't go properly. In my case there was a 100% correspondence between "rndis no workey" and "that crap flir tool in the system tray (lower right area) is still running". I think it's called IRCAM somethingsomething. I always nuke that first, and then connect the camera.
I also noticed that when the camera is in a "doesn't work" state, the easiest way is just to reboot the sucker. This because sometimes when it's tried a few times and failed, you cannot be all that sure of what kind of network setup you'll get. But after a reboot + IRCAM tool out of the way you get 192.168.0.2 (camera) and 192.168.0.1 (PC) consistently.
I am of course assuming that you didn't make a booboo, and that you actually
are in RNDIS mode.

Anyways, you can always check the network settings to see if the network adapter for your flir connection is setup properly.
The mode I found to be most useful / least problematic is RNDIS + UVC. That way you get networking and have the UVC video stream. Mass storage ... who needs it when you have ftp et al.
Hope that helps...