There are places in the US that I don't go to either, except when I have to travel through Chicago to get somewhere. I am sure to do that during the day.
We have a great places in the Southeast, Midwest, mountain states, and Southwest. Even Elon Musk migrated to Texas from California. Don't let the tabloid stories about the Pacific and some parts of our Northeast discourage you.
Have you read about the Louisiana purchase done under President Jefferson and his successor Monroe, 3rd and 5th Presidents, respectively? Our MIdwest is very roughly that area. I grew up in LA, it was much different then (late 1940's through 1960's), and have spent all of my professional life in the Midwest. Freedom as we have in America has its drawbacks, but the advantages outweigh them.