Simon do check out Khan Academy if you haven't. Khan has helped a ton of people with ADHD learn a lot of different subjects (math, physics, computer programming ,etc.)
And it's all free. There are no "grades", no deadlines. Learn at your own pace. Re-learn any concept anytime. Jump around to different topics if you'd like.
He's made me a believer out of lifelong learning. And today with tools like Matlab, Mathematica, or even Wolfram Alpha free on the web, you don't need to do the actual calculations if you don't want to. Just use your understanding and let the tools do the hard work.
Also I'm still new here but the community at EEVBlog is great.

We can help each other out when get stuck.