I’m new here so excuse the very basic layman’s terms, but the crux of what I’m looking for is a device to enable a one second signal after a one second delay of a proximity sensor activating, and again a one second signal after a one second delay from when the same proximity sensor deactivates.
You could use an XOR gate and an RC delay to create a pulse on both state changes of the sensor, and then a one-shot to generate your one second delay, and another one shot to generate
the one second pulse width. The CD4070 XOR gate can run off of 12 V directly. The 4538 dual one-shot can also run off 12 V. Make sure to get the real CD4xxx series, not the 74C4xxx
which are only good to 5 V.
To make the edge detector, put the sensor signal directly into one input of the XOR. Use a resistor in series to the other XOR input, and a small capacitor to ground at that input. This causes a
delay on that input, and the gate responds with a positive pulse when the two inputs are different. The choice of R and C values need to be chosen for the rise and fall times of the sensor output.
Look up the datasheet for the 4538, it's more than I want to explain here.
Jon