All joking aside the subject seems relevant to almost everyone here. I'd prefer to have a civil discussion based on facts presented as chances are we'd learn something. It's really not worth getting worked up about anyway.
Absolutely; and not just that, but seeing the basis of others viewpoints gives a much better overall picture.
Life is not a game. There are no "points" awarded on being right or wrong. What matters, is that you mentally model the reality around you in ways that allow you to act efficiently in the world. I prefer rational-analytic thinking, but many moderate religions can also provide such a framework. For example, the prevalence of
trichinella in pork (causing trichinosis in humans, which is pretty horrible) well explains why some consider it "tainted". For us rational-analytical agnostics, knowing stuff like that makes it much easier to cooperate with religious people, as there is a good idea (that was very pertinent once) behind the edicts. (Just remember that most humans are not smart or rational, and cannot understand the reasons why some things are bad or to be avoided. They
need the rules.)
For lead, it may be hard for laypeople to understand that lead absorbs into growing bodies at 33 times the rate it does for adults, and what that means when considering the use of lead compounds. Considering the effects of lead, violence in particular (it has been suggested that the reduction in lead additives in gasoline is a significant reason why violence in western societies has been clearly decreasing in similar fashion -- but correlation is not causation), it is definitely better to be too cautious than cavalier about lead.
It just happens that leaded solder is a clear exception. Where it is used, there is already a lot of other metals, necessitating proper disposal anyway. It is in an alloy form, making it quite safe for adults. (Actually, I tried (a bit, I'm lazy) to find the alloy absorption rates for children, as I think they are much smaller than for lead, but couldn't find any.) Using non-leaded solder involves the use of harsher chemicals, and I'm not sure if they have solved the issues regarding tin whiskers and such in the long term yet.
So, it is an interesting topic, and complex enough to discuss.