Controllers dissipate power from:
1. Operating current for the control itself
2. Driving the transistor gate
3. Ancillary functions if applicable
Some controllers have an internal LDO set for, usually somewhere 3-15V. In this case, the supply current is independent of supply voltage (when above the nominal LDO setting), and so the power dissipation can be racked up quite quickly in this way.
LM25119 is one that I've used, which works this way. It has four gate drivers, so the current consumption can get up there pretty quickly.
Consumption due to #1 isn't usually significant. Indeed, some controllers exist which can run direct from 500V (TNYxxx come to mind). (These do tend to be simpler ones, which helps to reduce current consumption.) Probably the most you can find is old bipolar controllers, like UC3842 and TL494 (~10mA).
#2 is usually the dominant load. Current draw is simply Qg(tot) * Vg(on) * Fsw. Switching speed doesn't matter, and current spikes are (or should be) smoothed out by nearby bypass caps.
#3 isn't common, but can be useful in special cases. Sometimes you need a local supply, which you can consider leeching off the VCC from the regulator (or VREF, or..). Typically these supplies are not rated for much to begin with (a few mA?), aren't well protected (they aren't intended as general purpose supplies), and overloading will cause malfunction of the chip (since you're browning out the driver/controller, or shifting VREF, or..), so they need to be used cautiously.
Some chips take it even further. LTC3810 has a regulator controller inside it too! Add external transistor and you can dissipate as much power as you've rated it for.
Note that a bootstrap approach is very helpful, if you can arrange it. This is how UC3842 and such start up -- supply charges through a big resistor, controller starts up, transformer kicks out an aux supply to run itself. Most buck regs have a similar option, where if your output is 3-15V, whatever the controller can use, you can use a startup circuit then self-power it from the same output (no extra windings needed). Other voltages, it may be possible to use a tapped or dual inductor to generate an aux supply, but this can get harder to arrange, as inductors of various ratios and values aren't very common. At that point, a completely separate supply gets attractive, if annoying.
Tim