Everyone I know in person pronounces it 'sod-er', as an anecdote I am originally from the state of NJ (Not near NYC!), where most people pronounce things like 'water' as 'wore-der'.
I, too, am from NJ( close to NYC). I pronounce it sod-er and wauda
. I do say solder in my head, just not when I speak. I bet if I keep listening to Dave, I will start pronouncing it solder and everyone I know will look at me strangely. Oh wait, they already do.
Chinese (mis)translations use "welding" quite often. Probably because their grasp of the english language is close to zero, so they rely on imperfect translation software that keeps on making the same mistakes over and over.
That's alright, most Americans' grasp of the english language is close to zero
. I have been out of NJ( close to NYC) for 25 years living in Florida and there is still no mistaking where I come from the moment I open my mouth. I have always thought the english language is a bit of a bastard language as even the word phonetic is not pronounced phonetically!!
Of course, being from NJ( close to NYC), I bastard it up even more.