Interestingly enough, I have been on my own journey lately. Since we've opened this can of worms, dumped it out, fed them to the fish, collected the fish crap, and shaped it into a worm-shaped mass, I'm going to relay a bit of it, because I think it's relevant. Not that anyone cares, but still.
As I've mentioned, I started out in a vaguely Christian cult. I will not go into details. My journey has taken me from that, to mainstream Christianity, to agnosticism, to atheism, to spirituality, to a Christian-like belief system, but there was always a very specific conflict. This conflict was how to deal with what I know to be true - a spirituality that I know exists, with what I have a very hard time accepting - the dogma of the Christian belief system. Bear with me, here, I'm going somewhere extremely relevant.
This has begun to resolve itself over the past couple of days, this by listening to a lecturer named John Shelby Spong. I won't go into the details of what he is teaching. But what he has shown me is that the Bible is not what it appears to be, and those who take it literally are pretty much barking up the wrong tree. For example, how many people know that the gospels were written forty to seventy years after the crucifixion, and that as that thirty years moves on, the stories get more and more fanciful? That there likely was no such person as Judas Iscariot? That there was likely no such thing as a virgin birth? (I know the atheists here take this as a given, you're not really the target audience). This doesn't affect my spirituality at all, but it gives me the ability to move forward while removing this conflict. But it requires critical thinking and a certain openness to the idea that that which you have always been taught is wrong. It's a very, very bitter pill to swallow, and it's one I've had to swallow repeatedly over my entire life (considering how many belief systems I've had, and I even left some out), but it must be done, or it's not possible to move forward.
So what I am hearing from people such as Simon is "evaluate your beliefs critically!" And then from people such as mechatrommer, "no!". This will never be resolved without a certain open-mindedness from all parties, an open-mindedness which will never show itself in this thread, or any other thread. And it's taking away from energy which could be used to make some really awesome stuff.
My belief system now is focused on compassion. There are many people out there I disagree with. I disagree with atheists, with fundamentalist Christians, with Muslims, with all sorts of people out there who I know are 100% wrong, and there's nothing that will be done to change that opinion. But just because one is 100% wrong, that doesn't mean that I hate or even dislike them. I try to understand where they're coming from, why they believe what they do, what pressures made them that way in the first place, and then I try to accept that the influences that made them that way are very powerful and take a very long time to counter. Wrong? Yes, very. But still worthy of respect, and I respect everyone here, even if I disagree fully with how they believe. I do hope that the discussion here continues to be respectful.
Just my thoughts.