TL;DR: Help me find DB9 connectors with removable/reassignable contacts?
I sell little modules for distribution, translation, and switching of (mostly) digital signals, typically with coax connectors:

Sometimes my customers want to put a bunch of these in a rack mount chassis with mass-terminated connector(s), often D38999-style circular connectors. So we sell D38999 connector kits, with the coax cables terminated with a pair of D38999-style contacts, for the customers to insert into standard D38999 housings as they see fit:

A single coax gets pinned out to two D38999 contacts for signal and shield/GND, and a pair of coax gets pinned out to three D38999 contacts for signal+, signal-, and common shield/GND. There is no "standard" pinout, nor even any standard for which pins are GND, which is why the D38999 is popular, because you can assign the pins any which way you want.
Lately I've gotten several inquiries from customers who want to do exactly this, but with DB9 connectors at the edge of the box. Most DB9 connectors I've seen are solder-cup or PCB-mount, neither of which lends themselves to arbitrary re-assignment of pins in the way that D38999 contacts make possible. I can't just make a "standard" DB9 cable, because there is no standard for generic adaptation of signals if it isn't a serial COM port.
I'm looking for a non-soldering solution, as this is for system integration folks who want to play with these like Legos™ before they commit to a final design.
Do re-assignable DB9 connectors exist? I'd be looking for both genders, and both panel-mount and cable-end varieties for each, as there doesn't seem to any standardization on that area, either.
Thanks!