hmm i have been "reading" these opaque terms over and over and over.
dozens versions of that (even before cloud and internet..) ...
And each time I still fallback fuzzy confused and not willing to do anything MS.
A bit over a couple of decades ago I paid a lawyer (specialized in the area and teaching it to other lawyers) to teach me what I needed to know to understand licenses.
Money well spent.
Quite a few of the current greybeard/wizard-level Linux developers have been burned by past Microsoft behaviour, usually
before they switched to Linux.
So, the hostility is understandable, and often based on actual personal experiences, not "prejudice".
(Regardless of whether one thinks the hostility is
acceptable or not.)
I have encountered the frustration and anger Renate is feeling right now in real life, too, and the only thing that seems to work (as in dispelling that anger and frustration), is to shock them enough so they see the true underlying reason: even FOSS works under marketplace rules; it is
not "no-cost charity". The exchange medium is just usually not money, but time, effort, and expertise.
Gentle speech does not seem to work. In my experience, they always soon lapsed back to believing they were being ostracized because of the OS they were using (or rather, because they weren't using Linux). But that's absolutely
not it. They just did not understand –– and I believe Renate does not understand either, but might, after they calm down and re-read this thread to see it with a clearer mind –– that the hostility is not towards Windows users, but towards
non-contributing users.
Just like in real life, there has to be give-and-take for interaction to be useful. Take-and-take –– being a non-contributing user –– is
unfair; and
unfair operates at the biological level in most humans. (Just look at Youtube at the "fairness experiments" on monkeys; that's how deep it goes.)
How to contribute, or how to be useful for a project so they'll be useful to you, is a somewhat "pure" type of social interaction: nobody sees you, only how you interact with others, so biological details etc. do not matter at all, unless you yourself bring them up. (Certain people who have learned their physical appearance gives them real world privileges have a hard time adjusting to that; one person once spent considerable effort in explaining to me how much modeling work they had already done, and therefore deserved extra credit from an online course I was teaching.)
One of the most useful and appreciated form of contributions is
good bug reports: these require very little technical skills, but is something everyone can learn to do. I already mentioned some others (translations, testing). So "contribution" is not about "coding" or "programming"; it is about making the project itself more useful to
its current developers. Again,
popularity –– how many users the project has –– is usually completely irrelevant, because only the contributions matter; only the contributions keep the project alive.