The problem is "sort of" resolved... I bought another used rtx3090 and I have no more space for my old rtx2080 in the case
I feel your troubles. The other day I had a full ashtray in my private airplane. I solved that issue by buying a new aircraft.
More seriously, have you tried any of the hints? Superglue or silicone?
No, I haven't had a chance to do anything with the card other than swap in the other rtx3090 and the nvlink bridge(before anyone tells me nvlink makes no sense - this is for running and training ML models locally not gaming) . I've been using any spare time I had to play with my new aircraft... I meant dual rtx3090 setup
Regarding superglue, if these were open coils, the kind you could see the wire on, I'd have done it by now, but in fully encased coils this would fix them to the pcb in a difficult to reverse way(there is a debonder for superglue, but I don't know how well it penetrates tight spaces like the gap between the pcb and an smd component).
So I much prefer an alternative the best of which is IMO conformal coating I have as it simply dissolves when soldering (you can solder through it when cured). But I'm not totally convinced to do it due to the thermals (on rtx cards capacitors and coils are cooled by the massive heatsink via a 1mm thermal pad, then when I open a 3 year old card they'll probably crumble away and I'll have to put $50 worth of thermal pads in it).
So with this thread I was more hoping for some reply like "I had exact same thing and I resolved it this way" more than "try superglue". Then I could maybe buy some cheap pads, open the card once and fix it, rather than keep trying stuff.
Try a different PSU.
My RTX2060 did something likw that when playing, like white noise.
Was also heard when scrolling in Chrome, moving windows...
I changed my 10yr old 650W PSU to a new 800W and the noise went away.
A noisy PSU will "modulate" all the regulators connected to it.
I've replaced the PSU when I installed the other card. I used to have be quiet pure power 11 600W, now I have pure power 12 1000w. The rtx2080 sadly sounds exactly the same.
I think it is worth mentioning it is not the kind of quiet noise you can sometimes hear from some laptops, also my other rtx3090 has such quiet noise too. I'm nit bothered by it one bit. I'm not sure how to describe the loudness of it. It's not screaming, but it's definitely loud, otherwise I wouldn't be bothered by it at all.
BTW these inductors are just 2-3 turns of thick wire with ferrite material compressed around them. No air gaps whatsoever.
Yes, also the solder pads are quite large. I'm very interested in what makes one of these cards be a lot louder than the other with the same layout/parts. The only thing I can think of is gaps inside the coils(ferrite not compressed enough).