I have not had any problems with Windows in the last decade. Mainly because I have not used Windows in the last decade.
The "it doesn't happen to me so it is not important and could even be non existent" attitude irks me.
I do not have cancer, I have not suffered any terrorist attacks, I have not been shot in Minneapolis. I do not know anybody who has been affected by those things. I guess I must be one of the lucky ones. I guess there is something wrong with people who suffer those things. They probably deserve them.
What a ridiculous thing to say. Everybody with a working brain cell knows that they are but one data point, which cannot represent the general population. But that does not disqualify them from describing their experience, because sweeping generalisations are EXACTLY what Linux fan boys do all the fucking time: they bang on about security, stability, reliability, blah blah, as if these are widespread problems for Windows users. And what is so ironic is that most of them haven't a fucking clue what they are talking about because they haven't used Windows in ten or twenty years!
So if you want to make sweeping statements, then it is reasonable for someone swept up to point out that it doesn't include them.
I love Linux, use it all the time; a lot of people do. But the fanboy is very different as you describe.
Linux, by CVE count,
is the most vulnerable platform on the planet, yet fanboys insist it's more secure. When confronted with that fact, they will say it's because open source allows more CVEs, but then provide no evidence.
It also, in my experience, has regular breaking updates. Every time I turn around lately, I have to recompile the NVIDIA CUDA drivers, for instance. And no Windows user ever heard of "dependency hell."
On the other hand, all of my friends outside of work run Windows, and none of them are "nerds". Hell, two still run AOL until recently.
I'm their tech support (SIGH), but it is rare that they have any issues.
The last big issue that caused the Windows platform pain was the virus/malware crap, maybe 10 years ago, which MS solved by purchasing and running an AV in the platform because users couldn't be bothered. Apple did the same thing with macOS, though they have regularly claimed macOS doesn't get viruses/malware.
I'm guessing no Linux user needs Anti-Virus or security software because they believe the myths. But Linux is the number one platform for malware, botnets, crypto-jacking, and ransomware. Just type any of these queries into google for instance:
"What is the most compromised OS?"
"what OS suffers the most botnets?"
"what OS suffers the most cryptojacking"