I found a way to perform the Fine Time Interval calibration using nothing more than my Siglent SDG2082X and a pair of BNC Jumpers. The length of the jumpers should be close but do not need to be exact, any phase or timing offset between the two is measured and canceled out in the 4 part calibration.
Set the SDG20xx gen to 100ns square wave (50.0% duty cycle), 1v P-P into 50ohm load, turn on channel copy coupling to sync, turn on both channel outputs.
Connect channel 1 and 2 from the generator to the counter channel 1 and 2 respectively and perform Fine TI cal step 1 (A)
Swap channel 1 and 2 on the counter and perform calibration step 2 (B)
Return channel 1 and 2 to the first position as in step 1 and set 180 deg phase shift between the generator channel 1 and 2 then perform calibration step 3 (C)
Swap channel 1 and 2 on the counter and perform calibration step 4 (D)
Fine TI cal should pass.
I also spent some time to verify the accuracy of this cal and best I can tell its within 10ps.